Talking About Money And Splitting the Cost of Child-Rearing After a Divorce

Spring is in the air, and as Alfred, Lord Tennyson famously said, it’s the time when a young man’s fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love. Truly, this is an optimistic moment: buds are bursting through frost, fans of lousy baseball teams feel improvident hope, and in all matters romantic, we cannot help but think of the good things yet to come—the spark of new attraction, the idyllic domesticity of a shared apartment, the stomach-flutteringly massive notion of getting married. So let me bring you down to earth: There’s a good chance you’re going to get divorced, by which time you may have kids, and on top of all the other heartbreaks, you may embark on a lifetime of difficult conversations about money. Let’s talk about this.

Figuring Out Finances After a Divorce

The Collapse of a Marriage

If you have a half hour to spare over lunch and want to read a terribly messy story about a couple’s five-year divorce battle in court, this is the story for you. It’s quite sad, especially for the children involved.

“Lives Unravel, Thread by Thread”

Alex Payne, an engineer and angel investor, has a really nice post about how he’s had a difficult time moving forward after his life unraveled.